Hi, Love! Brace yourself—I’m about to say something that might ruffle some feathers… Waking up early does not make you more productive. It won’t turn you into a millionaire. It won’t magically fix your procrastination problem. And it definitely won’t guarantee success. I know, I know. Every high-performing entrepreneur and “hustle culture” influencer loves to flex their flawless 5 AM morning routine: 💪 Gym session And sure, that all sounds great. But here’s the truth they don’t tell you… They don’t wake up early to be productive. It’s not the 5 AM wake-up call that makes them successful. It’s their clarity, vision, and systems. Let’s be real—how many times have you forced yourself to wake up early, only to: Yeah. Same. And that’s because waking up early for the sake of waking up early is useless. If you don’t have a plan—if you don’t know exactly how you work best—those extra morning hours won’t magically make you more effective. So instead of forcing yourself into the 5 or 6 or even 7 AM club, try this: ✅ Get brutally honest about what makes you actually productive. When you do that, waking up earlier becomes a natural result—not a struggle. So if you’ve been beating yourself up for not being a morning person, consider this your permission slip to stop. The goal isn’t to be an early riser. The goal is to be effective. I have a client who wakes up at 6:30 AM as a musician/actress/writer. Their income levels have nothing to do with their alarm settings. One needs as many hours in the day as possible to manage her acting career, writing goals, and the launch of her EP. The other is a night owl who only needs the sun's time to meet with her teams and complete bigger vision tasks. Now, tell me—are you an unapologetic night owl 🦉 or an early bird 🐦? Hit reply and let me know! Your used-to-be night owl turned morning momma coach, - Sabrina R. Avellán |
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